20 September

At odd intervals throughout one’s life landmarks are noted well, and these are often associated with the attainment of a significant age. But what distinguishes one year from another, and why should milestones be generalised?

Birthday celebrations are important to a child, they help a youngster grow and learn to ultimately stand up tall, mature, responsible and free. But as an adult what merit lies in continually making mention of one day repeatedly? Surely gifts are not the reason one chose to celebrate one’s birth?

It is remarkable, childish really, to relive one’s early years with a cake or greeting unless the previous year was one of courage, bold endeavour and creative cheer. Landmarks and milestones are not tied to arbitrary dates. They represent unique and special leaps of faith, and in this regard deserve a celebratory flair.

But a celebration without a reason is unjust and selfish to say the least. It is not the length of time spent upon the earth that justifies a feast, but rather the achievements made, however small, these are ever indications of endeavour tall. And achievement in self knowledge, in becoming all that one can be, is the single most important cause for joy collectively.

Re-educate yourself anew on what it means to be, and be open to the view that all that you achieve towards your freedom may well be the greatest milestone of your life, and you will know just when the call to celebrate will reverberate from deep within.

Give yourself to life and you will gain such rich rewards. Break from the mould of childhood and venture forth to make your mark for all.